Our Big Yes

One price. Pay once. Keep everything.

Build your whole site free, take as long as you need, and pay only when you publish.

$29once off, everything included

$29 once off, anywhere in the world. South African couples pay R399.

Everything included.

The website

  • All four themes, switch any time
  • Story, events, FAQ, travel and gallery
  • Optional guest password and custom domain
  • Partner account access and wedding party section
  • Draft preview before you publish

The guests

  • Unlimited households and guests
  • Secure, personal RSVP link per household
  • Meal choices, dietary notes and custom questions
  • Cards, email invitations and WhatsApp sharing
  • Guest photo album and broadcasts to the right guests

The gifts and planning

  • Cash funds, experience funds and charity items
  • Your own payment gateway, Stripe included for international couples
  • 0% platform fee on gifts
  • Planning checklist, budget and seating tools
  • Gift, vendor and thank-you tracking

Compare the real cost.

Free platforms are free until your guests start giving. Here is what your cash gifts cost elsewhere.

  • Our Big Yes

    $29 / R399 once

    0% platform fee

    Straight to your own gateway, same day

  • Zola

    Free

    2.5% card fee on cash funds

    Held, then paid to a US bank

  • Honeyfund

    Free

    Around 2.2 to 3% in processor fees

    Via PayPal or Venmo

  • Hitchd

    $119 to $199 once

    Stripe processing on top

    Held by the platform

  • WedSites

    $39 to $199 once

    No cash gifts

    n/a

  • Say I do (SA)

    Free, upgrades $50 to $99

    No cash gifts

    n/a

  • Wrapistry (SA)

    Free setup

    5% plus R999 transfer fee

    Held until your registry closes

  • Fund the Honeymoon (SA)

    Free setup

    4% plus PayFast fees and VAT

    Held, then paid out

  • EasyRegistry (SA)

    R340 once

    Processor fees, registry only

    No full website or RSVP hub

Competitor pricing as published on their own sites, July 2026. Your payment gateway still charges its standard processing fee on each gift; that is between you and your gateway, we take nothing.

And where your gifts go.

1

A guest gives a gift

They pick a fund on your wedding site and pay securely by card.

2

Your own payment gateway

The payment runs through your own gateway account, connected with your own keys.

3

Your bank account

Your gateway settles to your account on its normal schedule. No waiting for a platform payout.

Our Big Yes is never in the chain. Your gift money never routes through us, never sits in our account, and never carries our fee. 0% platform fee, always.

Pricing questions.

Why is it so cheap when big platforms are free?

Free platforms earn from your wedding another way: a percentage of your cash gifts, registry commissions, or advertising. We charge one honest fee upfront and take nothing after that. On most weddings, our price is less than the fees a free platform would quietly collect from your gifts.

Are there really no fees on gifts?

We charge 0%, always. Your own payment gateway charges its standard card processing fee on each gift, the same fee it charges any business that uses it. That money goes to your gateway, not to us, and the rest settles directly into your account.

Who pays $29 and who pays R399?

Couples anywhere in the world pay $29. South African couples pay in rand, R399. Same product, same features, one payment either way.

Does our site expire?

No. Some once-off competitors quietly stop hosting your site after 6 to 24 months unless you start paying monthly. Your Our Big Yes site stays up through the wedding and after it.

What if it is not for us?

You only pay when you publish, so you can build the entire site, load guests and set up your registry before spending anything. If something goes wrong after that, write to hello@ourbigyes.com and we will make it right.

Start free today.

You will not pay a thing until your site is ready to share.

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